Are YOU spectatoring during sex? The consequences of spectatoring can be a problem for your sex life — making sexual arousal and orgasm difficult. Take this short test (5 min) and find out whether you are spectatoring. And get tips and suggestions on what to do about it if you are.
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What is the definition of spectatoring? This term refers to how we split our erotic focus and worry or think about our body or our performance during sex. It is as if you are “watching” yourself have sex, instead of being in your own body enjoying the sensations and erotic thoughts needed for arousal and orgasm.
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Tips to handle sexual body spectatoring
When I have sex, I am not really in the moment with my body because I’m focused too much on how I appear. I can’t enjoy myself. If you found yourself feeling this way, read more tips to handle sexual body spectatoring.
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