What do most people get embarrassed by in sex? Here are the most common sexual mishaps that bother people. And yet many find them not embarrassing at all. You decide which are your sexual demons… Research into what distracts us,…
Many couples get stuck in a negative cycle of rejection-pressure. The higher-desire partner wants to have sex, so they put more pressure on the other person (either overtly or subtly). And then, the more pressure the low-desire partner feels, the…
Being turned down for sex can feel awful! Science tells us it is one of the most painful types of rejections becuase it is coming from the person we care the most about. But rejection is common in long-term relationships.…
How sex starts, sexual initiation is a crucial step in determining whether sex happens or not. Research tells us that the frequency of sex (in established couples) can decrease with proximity or increase with opportunity. This study looked at sexual…
13,000 men and women describe how they “get over the edge” to orgasm Too many women are having trouble reaching orgasm, but only when with a partner. Women only orgasm one time for every three times men orgasm. When women…
Your Sexual Initiation Style: Sensation (* While each person has a complex mix of all arousal types, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.) Your results suggest that Sensation is one…
How to turn-on your partner, with the four sexual initiation styles. While we all may appreciate different ways to start sex, most of us get turned on by a 1 or 2 styles more than others. Knowing your partner’s preferred…
The most popular ways women (and men) want to be approached for sex. We are very different when it comes to how we want to start a sexual encounter. To understand this crucial make-or-break initiating moment we asked over 10,000…
Doing Sexual Initiation Well You may inadvertently be turning your partner off with an initiation strategy that doesn’t work for them. If you want more sex but don’t know the best way to approach your partner for sex, here are…
Why can’t my partner just “take charge” in bed? This is the question too many women (and men) ask when they come looking for help to improve their sagging sex lives. The first step is to fully understand what they…
