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Embarrassing Sex? Common Sexual Mishaps

What do most people get embarrassed by in sex? Here are the most common sexual mishaps that bother people. And yet many find them not embarrassing at all. You decide which are your sexual demons… Research into what distracts us,… 

How do you get out of the sexual pressure-rejection cycle?

Many couples get stuck in a negative cycle of rejection-pressure. The higher-desire partner wants to have sex, so they put more pressure on the other person (either overtly or subtly). And then, the more pressure the low-desire partner feels, the… 

Tips to handle sexual rejection (well)

Being turned down for sex can feel awful! Science tells us it is one of the most painful types of rejections becuase it is coming from the person we care the most about. But rejection is common in long-term relationships.… 

Sexual Initiation and COVID-19

How sex starts, sexual initiation is a crucial step in determining whether sex happens or not. Research tells us that the frequency of sex (in established couples) can decrease with proximity or increase with opportunity. This study looked at sexual… 

Orgasm Techniques:

13,000 men and women describe how they “get over the edge” to orgasm Too many women are having trouble reaching orgasm, but only when with a partner. Women only orgasm one time for every three times men orgasm. When women… 

Surrender Initiation Style

If Your Initiation Style is:  Surrender (* While each person has a complex mix of all arousal types, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.)   Playing with power is the… 

Sensation Initiation Style

If Your Initiation Style is:  Sensation (* While each person has a complex mix of all arousal types, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.) The Sensation Initiation type is the… 

Seductive-Exotic Initiation Style

If Your Initiation Type is Dominant in:  Seductive-Exotic (Sexotic) (* While each person has a complex mix of all arousal types, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.) The ‘sexual adventurer’… 

Sex-Talk Initiation Style

Inside the head of the Initiation Style:  Sex-Talk (* While each person has a complex mix of preferences, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.) [fusion_builder_container hundred_percent=”yes” overflow=”visible”][fusion_builder_row][fusion_builder_column type=”1_1″ background_position=”left top”… 

Sentimental Initiation Style

Inside the head of the Initiation Style: Sentimental (* While each person has a complex mix of preferences, we can gain valuable insight into knowing which are the most compelling drivers to our arousal.) The Sentimental Initiation Style comes the…